An Anatomy of Betrayal
It is Holy Thursday and again, we will dust off our ripping of Judas to make ourselves look righteous. One of my seminary professors once said that betrayal can occur when you give someone more than they can handle or more than they deserve. Not that any of us needed him to tell us, but he went on to say that betrayal is painful. It is a common occurrence in the world in which we live but it is harder to fathom and move through when it occurs in Christian leadership and ministry. Betrayal is to have someone you trust turn on you, or to turn on someone who trusts you. Betrayal is when you share your truth with someone, and that someone weaponizes that truth against you, or when confidentiality is broken. It is when you see a smile but feel the knife. Betrayal is spreading information about people that you know will wind up another blot against them. It is not necessarily the act of telling a lie; sometimes, betrayal is telling the truth – for the wrong reasons. Be...